We sold our home

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Our house has sold and we will likely be moving out by Thanksgiving. For those not familiar with my sitch, my stbx are still living together as we await the sale of our house. SInce he filed in June, things between us have been better than they have been in several years. We have been making up for lost time and have definitley found each other again. He is still proceeding with the divorce. I think that the major reason he wants this is that he thinks all of our financial problems are my fault and doesn't think I can change. But on the other hand I find myself asking "why?" There are so many good things about our relationship. I don't think we would have gotten to the place where we are at now, where things have improved so dramatically, without reaching this rock bottom point of his filing. So for this I am thankful. I am experiencing that profound sadness again since the house sold, as I can see the end so close ahead. It's hard to keep DB'ing. Maybe after 4 months I should just throw in the towel. Anyone have any thoughts on my sitch? Any encouragement would be greatly appreciated....