Post Finale

[SDFoundGirl]

I came to check in with you before I leave since you were kind enough to post on my thread...and because, well, we have history.

Sweetie, post-divorce is no different from post-bomb. It still takes DBing. DBing, in the end, is not really about marriage, it's about you.

What we focus on is what we see. Therefore, focusing on all the crap in the world and your sitch will bring you down. But what if you focused on the good? What if you spent 10-minutes every day either writing or actively thinking about what was good that day? Your D's first ride, making it out of bed, some laughs you had with your kids...it seems too simple, but appreciation and gratitude are incredibly powerful tools.

You are a great man, but your life will not change until you decide it's time for it to change. In the end, it is really as simple as a choice, and you are the only person who is able to make that particular choice.


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I hope you will be well...this is the life you have, not a dress rehearsal. What kind of life will you choose? What brings you closer to what you want, and what takes you from that path?

SD