Mama, why does he have a L if the plan was to use a mediator? When I hired a mediator last year (when I walked the first time) it was with the understanding that we would be able to avoid the expense of an expensive divorce. He drew up the agreement, all we had to do was file it w/ the court & pay fees. In my state/county, there are a few minor adminstrative hurdles, but in a nutshell, after a couple of mandatory 'parenting meetings' you are divorced in 90 days. Cost, less than $5K. Do you have a mediator? Or have you retained your own L? Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots