Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #12

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MMF, Thanks. I didn't really feel hurt by W being a little more cold today. I know I didn't do anything wrong so whatever she is feeling is coming from her world, not me.


ILF, I guess you could say my W is cake eating but I don't know that I agree or care. My W is an emotional mess. You can see it when you look at her when she is not talking as well as other times. I treat her the way I do because that's how I want to treat her, I don't know how else to treat her and mostly that is how I think she needs to be treated. This is about her, not me. She is very stressed and I think she is depressed. I work hard to me be in a position to take blame for how her life is going.

I don't measure success on a daily basis. That will only lead to failure. This takes time. I have complete faith that given the right amount of time, my W will come back. I think that since she lost her job we have taken a couple of steps in the right direction. Baby steps. However, the biggest step will be when her R ends with OW. I think that her losing her job is a step in the right direction there too.

I continue to be patient. (which sucks)