The projection makes sense. Guilt - a likely factor.
It really didn't upset me. Just called a bud and talked about it - and we both laughed at how stupid it was. He is not 7 yrs old that he needs his m or d there all the time. Oh well.
If asked I may say that was her opinion (on one of us needing to be there) and since it was important to her I had no problem going. Don't know.
Last night S13, D11 and I were playing a board game. D11 wanted to (W was upstairs watching tv). Started at 10:15 (I was out earlier for a bit - a mysterious outing!). W comes down at 10:40 and says bed time for k's. K's didn't want to quit. After some back and forth between W and k's, I suggested to k's that game was over since mom said it was bed time.
Too bad I am such a frickin jerk.
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