You know, I've had that with my H. He once was accusing me of poor parenting when I left S14 and D8 alone for 30 minutes or 45 minutes once of poor parenting (he was there with them but I was going to come home 30 or so minutes after he left to avoid him and I was having fun!!!), so upset, yelling at me. Of course he had left them alone for hours many times to go out with OW when I was in the play. I pointed out that he had done that in the past, and then he said oh, I forgot about that.
I've chatted with others on this board about that, there is a lot of finger-pointing and blaming done by the WAS. Maybe projection? Like cheaters accuse you of cheating, poor parents accuse the other of being a poor parent? Who knows!!!! Karen Karen
