So get this...I actually registered there. I was thinking about everything I could say without sounding like I was attacking them to maybe knock some sense into their heads. Then I thought about it...why in the world would I try reasoning with people who are only thinking of themselves. The last thing they wanna hear is from a W who they consider a B*tchWife. It really is sick that they are promoting having an affair. I just want to scream at them, do you really think your MM is being honest with you if he can't even be honest with the person he lives with and his children?!!??! Especially when 95% of their meetings are to have sex! It really is disgusting.
And it's hilarious that the women, I'm sorry, they're not worthy to be called women, are upset because they think its the BW's fault that the MM won't leave her and go live with them!! Really?! I'm not kicking my H out and he is still living with me. That's not my fault!!! That's his. Get mad at him!!!
And why on earth people can't wait to start a relationship before filing for D is beyond me. I keep telling my H, if it's meant to be, it will be. Doesn't matter how long you have to wait for it.
And I totally agree that there is a special place for these people.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!