MMF you didn't offend....It is just frustrating to watch his wife cake-eat enjoying both her OW and Husband but for different things. I backed-off when I realised that if he took my suggestion and became more pro-active and less accomodating to this situation, that it could actually backfire and it would be worse for him. This female on female relationship is a different nut all together. I do think that one is in danger of making it seem to the kids that daddy is OK with this relationship. So far it appears everything has worked out for his wife...she has OW for housing, sex, and emotional needs and her husband for co-parenting. That is never good. He was hoping that his wife would be a financial drain on OW and then kick her out....but that hasn't happened. I am curious if anything has changed in her relationship with the OW that is giving him hope that his current approach is working. Just based on reading his posts....and thats all we have to work with...it doesn't appear any different today. She seems in no hurry to divorce...maybe for insurance reasons or the kids but there is a legal separation.
