My STBX SIL came over last night. First time I have seen her since I moved home. She is a really fun person and I always enjoy her company. We started to talk about STBXH (no bashing on my part at all) and her comment to me was that she and her H (stbxh bro) are just stunned at the way he has changed. She said it happend so drastically as well. They never saw it coming. I said "How do you thin I feel?" She told me that they went out for drinks together and had a great time, then STBXH called her to apologise for being so judgmental towards her in the past. She said that they both thought, ok, maybe he is turning into a good guy. Within two weeks he was pulling some of the same selfish stuff again. She even said that it is like he is trying to re-invent himself so is talking all of the peaceful, compassionate stuff, but is not really living the life.
He does not talk about his OW to the at all and they have not met her. I told her that they are living together at this point. She just shook her head. It is all so sad that he could just change like this so quickly. I have to learn to just let that go. I will never understand why he did it, so there just seems to be no reason to keep asking why. Yet I still do. Hopefully one day soon I just wont care anymore. Even though I loved seeing her, it made me very sad as well. A reminder of what was being broken by him. <Sigh> I truly hope one day he at least grow up and regret what he did. I know there is no gaurentee, but it would sure be nice if that happend.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
