Hi Confused. I just wanted to say how impressed I was with how you handled that 3 am telephone call incident.
1. You just hung up, brilliant and such courage! Bravo 2. You told your husband to just be careful driving? Jesus, its almost poetic!
Wow, i just admire your courage so much. I am big pile of mush for my spouse...I just melt all the time and get used. I hate it. :P
I think you may have inspired me to stick up for myself.
What I can say or at least ask :
1. Are you committed to keeping your marriage or are you done with him? It's not entirely clear just yet.
2. Something I would like to say in general to everyone, and to help myself find some courage to stand up for myself :
There are many many many people here who are grown adults, who "get it" and won't trash a relationship like this. I oftentimes think I will never find anyone else, and that this is my only chance. I keep coming here to find so many mature, intelligent, sensitive adults working hard on their marriages under the most ridiculous situations. It is inspiring me to find the courage to challenge my spouse and risk losing everything, because there is somthing to be gained still and that I will find someone else...
TO be honest, if I ever wanted to find someone, this is the first place I would look - you guys are the most mature and emotionaly intelligent people I know.
