Not sure i have the courage. I would have to do it with the support of H. I have been a very hands on mother and die at the thought of them being angry with me. On the other hand I think it would be freeing.
I will mention it to H, as soon as he starts talking to me again. I don,t want him agreeing to it, if he is doing it for points value with kids.
If they are going to be told , it will be because I want them to understand where their father is coming from.
I appreciate advice like this, as your perspective of things are from the same angle as my Hs.
Not sure if it will happen but it is definitely food for thought.
