It's good to read of your goings on. The caring you both show for your son is impressive and will no doubt turn the situation around as you use all options available. So many times kids are the canaries in the coal mine because of their sensitivity.
To play devil's advocate, does having G40 in your life lessen the need for your marriage to survive. Granted, women who leave, the fact your spouse is living with someone else all are grim prospects for reconciliation. I'm getting to the point where I see that he was the best husband he could be as I was the best wife within the context of our flaws and strengths.
G40 sounds like a very sound, stable and caring person.. beautiful.
