Hi Separated, thanks for message, we have been separated for 2 months and no kids (M for 3 and T for 6). I have found this website a great help and have been DBing for about 5 weeks. It got his attention but he says this is the only decision he could have made, it didin't occur to him to try and sort out things as he didn't want me hanging around for him, hence going dark.
Thanks L. I think you are right in that he is not thinking as he is "in love" and is living for the moment. He is picking up rest of his belongings next weekend and then it'll be easier to not have any further contact. I was the one always mailing and texting him and now it has been him since going dark. But I'm going to be cautious.
