BBJ, I think you got a good grasp on what he is/was thinking and feeling. H needs to re-evaluate some of his thinking. Your patience is being tested so take care of yourself. Cookie gave me some good advice and told me to learn to fill up my own "love buckets." Not easy but better than being frustrated and tense. This phase won't last forever, you can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
