That is so, well, I don't have a word for it. Sad, almost. She is giving you what you would have wanted not so many months ago, but so much has happened, it is seemingly insurmountable....I too think that in many cases the WAS will come to his/her senses and realize that there is a major mistake being made, but by then the LBS has been wounded and is trying to heal and may not be willing to risk the pain again.
Thoughts are with you. You knew all along you were doing the right thing, I think, and your W knows this now, too.
