Clingy/needy behaviour: asking for reassurance too much aka "taking the temperature," fishing for compliments, needing her approval so you feel better, needing instead of wanting, get upset when she tells you no. Read up on co-dependence, Melody Beattie.
Do you try to love your W using your LLs or hers?
Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.