I still stand by what I said previously....You do not want a MLC'er still at home with you, especially if they are involved in another relationship.
But, I guess each person knows what they can handle, and what they can't.
I was lucky I guess, my Husband moved far away, and I didn't have to witness everything he did. It was bad enough to hear his rantings over the phone and receive ugly emails.
When he first moved out of the house, I was devastated, but he lived only 10 minutes away. After a few months of that, he chose to move 3000 miles away. Now I see this as a blessing, because I could never have handled running into him or having him come over to the house regularly, when he was in MLC.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.