I may have missed something.... How is it YOUR fault she bought the farm?
I know you have heard this before but you need some me time lady...You are letting him affect your Mood / feelings and he is blaming you for his... Ya he says "It's not your fault it’s mine" but then gets mad at you.
Take it easy lady. One day at a time. I used to farm. There is no delaying some things. There is allotting of no adjustment times... Cows need to be milked TWICE A DAY everyday... you can't say "well I will just milk them tomorrow. As for Plowing, Combining... there is also time limits. The weather waits for no body. Harvesting one day late can affect the sugars in Corn making a fantastic crop into an ok one... But enough about Farming... Do you think your husband really thinks you would leave? You would give up on your M? Maybe like me you have been saying you will or would but like me telling my wife daily I love her and giving her UN returned affection is not the actions of someone willing to leave. Don’t get me wrong. Your husband going to Reto is proof that he is concerned and willing. My wife too went to Reto. She too has made some effort in mending our R... but I think my actions made her feel she has all the time in the world to "decide" what she wants. I know it's hard but ya need to try to act AND BE "as if"... And yes no mater what we do our kids know.
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
