In trying to look up articles on the mind of the OW, I came across this website called EDITED - NOT ALLOWED ..This is the premise of the site....
If you are the "other" involved in an extramarital affair, considering getting involved in an affair or are in the process of ending an affair, this is a place for you to speak freely and honestly with others who experience the same highs and lows you do. We're here to offer each other empathy, support and encouragement by sharing our stories, posting messages, and chatting. We want you to feel that this is a "safe" place to share your thoughts, and that there is always someone here to listen and care...
I know the pain and hurt it has been by H leaving for OW and now there is a site to support this. I am looking now to see if I recognize possibly the OW posting to this site. Wouldn't that be something.
Just wanted everyone on this site to be aware of this...
I think it is sick and destructive and encourages these OW to continue their A.
It really needs to be exposed and I think the best place to expose it is here in this forum.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
I only went into the OM/OW forum. These talking about moping around until their MM/MW could see them again. Talk about a place full of low self-esteem individuals.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
omfg for real? there is a site for people who cheat? AND like it?
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
OMG!! I've done a lot of reading/searching on A's and OW and have never found this site .... TOW (the other women). What an awful acronym. When I saw it my first thought was 'toe'. Gee, my toes aren't that attractive...
I just spent over 30 minutes reading some threads and am astounded. I read about one OW who was worried because the wife of the man she is having an A with found a personal item of hers. Someone else told her to 'make sure they got their stories straight.' Good Lord!
On the other hand, it's somewhat enlightening because you can see their emotions first hand. We tend to think of the other person as a horrible, unmoral skank, but these seemed like real, every day people. Except of course they've gotten mixed in a R with married person so maybe they aren't so normal. Perhaps they're just as lost and mixed up as some WASs.
Who would believe it. Maybe I should send to OW so she can sign up and get tips. It really does make me sick also. I have been so angry when i came across it. Complaining about the spouses and how dare they break up their true love??? It should be shut down.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Look at this poem that was posted there. If this does not keep us to DBing nothing will...
To His Wife by Anon I guess it’s not mine to understand How you can use him up like this- And not feel the least bit guilty And give no love in return.
But continue to take - as though he owes you Owes you for what because you exist? Because you’ll get nasty if he doesn’t give? But you give no love in return.
What will you do when your meal ticket’s gone And you can’t use “the kids” anymore? You’ll wonder why you’re lonely and sad- Because you give no love in return!
So threaten and push, be nasty and cold- It’s better for me if you are that way Because it brings him to me, time and again And I give all my love in return
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
