been reading your sitch bro. Hopeforus rings it out true. I used my Ws " list" as a guideline to start with....the only downfall ....she is now furious about my changes! Now her complaints are only from the past. She has used the term "you will be better for the next woman" hurts when you hear it.
We have the calender of events on our fridge. 2 girls in cheerleading gets busy. I made a chore chart for the kids a few weeks ago...something I have always talked about and followed thru. I have a actually been "taking charge" of my family lately...not in a controlling way but a manly fatherly way. W acts wierd about it ..kids seem to actually like it!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM