Mrs. H, I'm sorry that JA is still up to his old tricks of baiting you. He's curious to know what you are feeding your boys... most likely to see just what they like to eat and if you are feeding them properly. He's at a loss for words when it comes to talking to you. He's just nuts.
As for the lawyer, there is only so much that they can do about the situation. You've put him on notice about the sharing of the bed, etc. Now, you'll need to listen to what your sons say and document.
I wondered just how long it would be before the boys began to open up and tell you that it's not fun over at JA's. How could it be? Cramped up in a small place and his father cooking, eating and paying attention to the ow. I'm sure they are happy to return home and have their toys.
As for them purchasing a home together...we shall see about that. The housing market isn't so great right now and the prices are still too high for most.
For now, focus on what you need to do to get yourself through each day.
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
