I guess I should post where things are at for me. Not much has changed with regards to W . She is being quite good towards me and because I have had much stress at work , she has realy stepped up to the plate and helped out. She has helped with a lot of stuff around the house recently and it has been great. For those that do not know , or have forgotten , I work in the Finance industry and thats a ship thats running aground right now. My current job has been dis=established ( never heard word that before ). I now think its time for me and W to have a "state of the nation" talk , so when the time is right.