How long does this all take .

Tonight he has ignored my text - ( i know i should not be doing it )

My trouble is - that i get comfortable and see tiny little signs that he is interested ,and then he blows it out of the water. Is that normal. I realise today I should of been more positive and more helpful.

I do get annoyed that when his family is around he plays this happy - pleased to see me person and then he does 180 on that next time.

I know he has a problem with me critising him. I think I have to have a mantra when i am going to see him - Just be nice.

Am i meant to do that even when i feel like screaming at him. Does repentance for A mean not showing how you truly feel ? I have changed so much in last couple of years. i used to yell a lot and now I control that. But not saying that I am annoyed about how he treats me is very hard. At the end of the day , I am the mother of his children. Surely he has some responsibility to his children to show me some respect.

i don't want his children to think less of him as a dad. But man he makes it hard to fight for him when they are hurt or angry. He just does not see that in them. He is so bound in himself.


Last edited by max030; 10/18/08 09:28 AM.