It seems the moves forward are being recognised well in advance, so land mines are being laid and the DAM is fool enough to step on them. Never mind the border I'm getting trapped even before troops receive their final briefing.
In plain speak, I used to remember arguments starting out of nothing, and I'd think WTF where did that come from. But on reflection it's easier to rebuff someone you're arguing with rather that someone who's been a good boy. I'm recognising similar patterns of behaviour creeping in, admittedly on both sides. Bottom line is I think I need to sit down and take a look at me again cos I have not control over the way she feels or thinks. Argument don't start out of nothing, somthing sets her off, funny thing is I can now recognise being set up, and its difficult to avoid.
On a lighter note I plan to start swimming with D7 on Sunday morning, all sounds good. However, W partially scuppered that, as we can only go every other week, oh and start next week. The fortnightly plan is cos D7 hair and skin is sensitive to the Chlorine in the water.