OMG!! I've done a lot of reading/searching on A's and OW and have never found this site .... TOW (the other women). What an awful acronym. When I saw it my first thought was 'toe'. Gee, my toes aren't that attractive...
I just spent over 30 minutes reading some threads and am astounded. I read about one OW who was worried because the wife of the man she is having an A with found a personal item of hers. Someone else told her to 'make sure they got their stories straight.' Good Lord!
On the other hand, it's somewhat enlightening because you can see their emotions first hand. We tend to think of the other person as a horrible, unmoral skank, but these seemed like real, every day people. Except of course they've gotten mixed in a R with married person so maybe they aren't so normal. Perhaps they're just as lost and mixed up as some WASs.
