Andabelle,
Thank you for posting to me, and for your support. I keep wondering when he will wake up and have one of those "Eureka" moments and say, "I'm trading THIS for THAT?? What was I thinking?"

Yes, the MLC insanity ramps up the spouse's stress levels enough that I suspect that any issues one has beforehand get worse. If you have a tendency to overeat, you will blow up. If you are scatterbrained already, you will not even be able to find your head in the morning, much less your keys. In my case, I developed the attention span of a flea, and found it even more difficult than before to start and complete projects. My slight tendency toward anorexia and bulimia skyrocketed instantly. I have that mostly under control. The bulimia is still putting in an appearance now and then.

Okay, I'm so exhausted that I'm starting to fall asleep trying to read my own post over.

Thanks so much for your kindness and caring.
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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