As you note, the key is to show yourself as a strong, independent person. You're showing your independence and strength when you avoid being clingy.
Smooth move getting her to go to doctor. Hopefully she follows through.
The surprised looks are an excellent gauge of progress. The surprises don't even have to directly relate to your W or R. For example, I gave up my raging diet coke addiction post-bomb. Wife was over picking up some stuff and I told her to go ahead and take a couple of 12-packs we had in the garage. She asked why and I told her I now only drink water or milk. Her jaw just dropped.
Keep being a mysterious man. Keep her guessing a bit. These things are your friends.
My thread, Carpe Diem #4 Orig Thread: Carpe Diem #1
