Most of the people I know have moved to other groups.. and I find my time "slipping" away from being able to "Work" here. I said all that just to give some perspective to you Ndsmhelp. It does not matter what you "stitch" looks like.. posting here (DB.com) shows the intent you have... or as I call it.. your heart.
Do you mean that you are no longer able to "work" on yourself by posting here? I think that is how I was feeling, but for me sort of a limbo..not divorced, not separated and according to my wife, not piecing. Then it got to a point where it seems like all I was doing was posting about these great times we are having, with a rant / vent thrown in because she won't tell me everything is going to be OK....something I guess I have no right to hear from her now anyway.
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Even if you fail.. you still win.. you walk away knowing you did everything you could to the best of your ability. When you see the fleeting.. do something to draw her closer. Show her that you will be there.. if you show her with your actions.. she will understand.. even if she says she doesn't.
That is what, I think, has changed recently....the distant and cool times are still there on occasion. I find it easier to look past them, or try something different to draw her closer, or draw her out. Maybe she no longer feels that fear or awkwardness because most times it's just not there.
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This I don't really understand... let me put it to you this way.. once you get your "mind" straight.. you could help a lot of people here (DB.com). You could be a Bworl.. or a Forrest Gump.. or a Coach.. It's in you.. you just have not grabbed a hold of it yet. If you resemble me at all.. and I think you do.. you just need that "extra" personal touch. I still think you need a close personal mentor to "help" you.
Hmmmm...that's some big shoes to fill my friend. I am not going anywhere, so we'll see what happens. At least I can't get sued for malpractice, right??
Have to come up with a catchy sig line...."Do Work" is already taken.
