JGrind, the night is ending and you will have survived this tough anniversary. Do you think he forgot it was 16 years? I pray you will be reconciled next anniversary. I am down tonight. D out at football game and I know H is out with OW tonight. I am hoping the more time they spend they will realize that this is a false relationship.

I have a friend that sends me these daily devotionals from rejoice ministries that talk about the prodigal spouse and about fathers and their children. So I created a fake e-mail through google and send one of them to H's e-mail. It talks about how D hurts the children and being the father they should be. I think I will continue to send one here and there. Let him figure out who it is. I know it will make him nervous. This is what I do when I stress. At least I did not call him.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09