I agree with Mike and Sara. Simplistically speaking/writing I'm going to suggest the following:
1. Say to h, (not just in passing, but not a sit down big 'R' talk either, we don't want to freak him out and then have him feel like he's been backed into a corner and agreeing with whatever you say). "H, I'm really keen for us to spend some fun time together. What do you think?"
2. h (if he's like mine) will be kinda non-committal
3. See if he can list one or two things that he would like to do with you in or out of the house (and not sex! - again, projecting my h into this sitch)
4. Give it a day, then mention you'd thought about what he said and suggest a few dates. Say again that you're keen to spend time with him and that it's really important to you to have fun with him and that you will make it a top priority to keep the date.
5. Try and book in a time.
6. Once you've got a time booked, remind him once.
7. If he pikes and doesn't come to the party....then you can kill him in his sleep like Woog(?) said before.
8. If he wusses out on you. um....crap...run out of brain space.
** Purple
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