My H has been having an affair since 2004 and he told me in February that in the beginning, it is exciting and you think you have strong feelings for the other person but you come to the realization that it is not all it is cracked up to be, it is just an illusion. However, my H is still living over there and he is quite miserable! He has told me several times that he is miserable over there. I do not think MLCers are very capable of getting out of their situations as easily as we think we can get out of them. It is as if they are paralyzed.
Hang in there. You will feel better and things do become easier with each day that passes.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
