Have you ever asked to see where he is staying? Just so you know where the kids are and the conditions of the place and surrounding area? If you have, has he just refused to divulge? Just curious.
thanks for indulging me!
I've seen the apt. building where his friend lives; he had pointed it out to me a year ago or 2 before all this (apparently his friend has 3 or 4 girlfriends around the US).
It's downtown in a nice area, and I know his friend is also a L so the place is nice, but small according to the kids. There is a separate bedroom and bathroom they use when staying there. H has told me he wants to live with OW and the kids so I am expecting after the D they will officially get a new place or he will move in with her and have the kids stay there. I probably should be more curious, but I'm almost a turtle the way I have tried to never snoop, look at the cell phone, or any of it. Karen