Geez, they're all the same, just the names have been changed. They want to end up looking like innocent victims of our neglect, so deserving of that relationship that just "developed" during the separation. It's hard to believe, but some people are actually buying into that with my H. How sweet that he "reconnected" with an old love. He forgets to mention that he was more committed to OW than to his wife so he left to "live into his honesty." Folks point out there's more than one side to the story. So true--the truth, and his version of it. Yuck.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012