Well, I know he's living with the OW but since he's moved out he has the kids over to his (guy) friend's apt most of the time when he takes them overnight although has had them stay at her place when she was out of town he said he was housesitting for her. I think maybe to protect the OW b/c she was married until recently. He uses a po box so I don't know where they really live. As soon as our D is over, I'm sure he will "come out" or whatever you call it, wow! they just fell in love during our separation/divorce--she's not really a skank! I don't really understand any of the stuff he does, but probably has to do with $$ too I guess. Karen