Honestly, this is such a hard place to be, but when your focus is on the Lord, it just seems to make things so much easier.
My Prodigal returned after a lengthy MLC and it has been about 19 months now since he came home. We have our normal ups and downs, but things seem "normal" again.
They really do came out of the fog they are in, but they have to do this in their own time, at their own pace. Believe me when I tell you, you absolutely do not want a MLC'er living at home with you.
Sending you love and prayers,
BND
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.