Thanks for checking in. I've been lurking the past few days. I don't seem to have too much to say right now. I have been working a lot too so that doesn't help as I am not online when everyone else seems to be.
Things are going well though. Hubby and I talk all the time. More than we had in awhile. He is asking how I am, how is work, how did my interview go, etc. Which is all very exciting. He is finally starting to show some interest in my life. Novel idea.
He is training away and doing well and that's all that matters. The sooner he passes the sooner he comes home!
My job interview went well. I will know by Wednesday if I got the job or not. Which is a good thing because my current employer just cut my hours way way back for no apparent reason other than slowness. Grr. So it will be a welcome change if I can get it and then I can start looking at apartments. Yay!
One example is last night my friend and I were online and she was checking her myspace page and I was like "look at h's!" And when she checked it we saw that he had changed his status to single. I was soooo furious. He had just logged in three days beforehand too so it was not like he hadn't been on in awhile. I was really upset and kinda wanting to say "screw you!" because I had just done him a massive favor by letting him borrow some money so that he would not overdraft his checking account. It was the middle of the night where he is so I did not send anything. Then today when we were talking it was all normal and fine. So I decided to mention it. I just said "There is something that is bothering me but I do not want it to lead to an argument" he asked what and so I told him that I had seen his status and that it hurt my feelings. He replied that he didn't remember when he had changed it (so it must have been awhile ago) but that next time he was online he would switch it. I said thank you and told him it would make me feel a lot better.
The reason I share all that is because it is a CLASSIC example of something I would have flipped! out about in the past but I gave it time and space and then calmly mentioned it and got a much much better response than if I had gone psycho on him and yelled and demanded.
Maybe I am getting the hang of this after all!
Thanks again for checking in on me. I'll post soon. I promise!
