Look for the OM. I sense a disturbance in the force. ;\)

Sandi is right about you coming across as needy in your interactions with your W.

Let her do her thing, you can't stop and/or control her anyway so what you do now for yourself will be remembered when she shakes this fog.

Be kind, be firm. Don't enable her but don't obstruct her either.

H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation