FIB--- going through this you question everything and I can understand you frustration....just agree with the others Im in ca and its a no fault divorce....i cant tell you the frustration....have an affair, spend all the money, manipulate your spouse into thinking u just want time and space...and you just dont know what to do...while they spend all the money....and hide it...and at the end of the day..its a no fault divorce! ughhhh...and the sad part is ....the bottom line another family destroyed.....looking back i just cant imagine what would be so wrong you couldnt fix it...given the path divorce takes...but hey we could all have the attitude lets move on and be happy!...oh well....one day at a time and your doing good even though your racked with pain...try and focus on the good things.....the pain is a downward spiral that never ends,,,take care
