Why would anyone forgive infidelity?

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One thing I've learned as the years go on (and on and on)....never say never. You may not be able to imagine your ability to forgive.

Forgiveness is NOT saying....oh, it's ok.

It's saying...you no longer need to pay for it. I do not hold you accountable for that any longer. I am letting it go.

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Annulment eligibility...you never know about that until you actually go through the process. Adultery is not grounds. My exhusband was able to obtain an annulment. I would never have thought we had grounds. But the church did not agree. I was surprised. (I was divorced pre-DB .... came here 2 relationships later)