My W said somewhere along the way that she was raped in college. It came out of nowhere when she told me, so add that log to the fire. I just tell myself to not be angry at her, but feel sorry for her, and it sort of helps. I guess I am more angry at myself for letting my kids down, and me for letting it get this bad. I really thought I was supposed to "save" her, but I haven't yet.

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.