You are obviously in a different sitch than we are at the moment, but what I can say is that the one time that I actually suggested ML, H said no and it didn't happen. Some of the times it has happened he has made comments like "I bet you wish we would..." and I have said, no not really, or something of the like. Then he will initiate. The very big thing is that I don't initiate. You should have more security in your R at the moment, but my guess is even the smallest hint that you're interested looks like massive pressure. What I do is completely ignore him in bed. We're not at the cuddling stage...if he chats with me I chat back and am very friendly, but I only take his lead on everything. I act completely disinterested and this seems to work. Worth a try anyway, not sure how you've been lately, but could you try just rolling over to go to sleep when you're in bed and he's reading or something? Your lack of obvious interest might just interest him.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
