BSC, some would say (actually most people would say) that it is over for me. My wife has divorced me, she has pretty much left most of her old life behind (she spends little time with our children) and she is moving on with her life (whatever that really means).
But, anything is possible. Do I believe she was telling me the truth, for years, that she loved me? Yes. Do I believe she was telling the truth when she said that she no longer loved me and she didn't to be married? At that time, yes. Does she want to be divorced? I don't know. But I do believe that she does love me. I also believe she is going through some challenges in her life that are hard to explain.
Personally, I believe that most of the WAS/MLC/(insert acronym here) have an "image" problem and cannot decide who they are supposed to be.
If you love her, be patient, take care of the kids and be nice to yourself. Be gentle with her.
Read and re-read Michele's books. And be patient.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God