Oh I would love that opportunity...I would give up my job etc. to move somewhere with my H. Remember though that he has followed me across continents...
How do you feel about giving up the grad program? How much time do you have left? Is there any way to finish it and move for your H later, i.e. he goes first and you follow a few months later? Alternatively given that 3 hours isn't really THAT far, is your schedule flexible like you could just be there 2 days per week? After what you've already been through doesn't sound so bad...Otherwise I would say that unless giving up the grad school is career-limiting in some way, or really goes against everything you deeply want, I would move for H. I would let him take the lead. This is a fantastic opportunity to show him how much you trust him and are willing to be led by him...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
