At this point it is his choice, Limbo. You have the choice to contact OW and ask to read his emails. And he has the choice to read what you have written about your relationship to us. I know that if you read the emails it would be destructive. I don't know if his reading your thread would be contructive, instructive, or destructive. But that is the nature of the internet. We now all have access to kinds of information that we would not have had in the past. What he does with the information that he has access to is up to him. But as we say on this website, it is his mess. He needs to clean it up.