very true- grashoppa, i will lay off \:\) or on - he he he...
i think my self confidence has dropped a bit so i do pressure him more...time to STOP!

he is going away for 3 weeks for a training for work so i wont see him much- that will be hard- but maybe just what the doctor ordered....

im actually looking forward to me time and to getting myself back on track with exercise and hanging with my girlfriends!

also- ITH- i think you can relate to this:

my H is now throwing around the idea of moving away to the sierra's (3 hrs from where we are).. i would have to stop my current grad program - i told him i would and i can always go back to it. in the past he said he flet like i picked everywhere we moved- so im trying to stay calm and just let him lead...i think he should pick where we live so e fels calm and in control. part of me really doesnt want to give up the program- but i really think he needs to feel in charge and i have always sort of led the way and changed my jobs and moved us...
any ideas? \:\)


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