well one thing my DB coach said to me was to not play games- that if H contacted me to reply- its ok to wait a little and be busy- but i would reply....im not sure though if you think it would be a 180....maybe its a good thing to try once and see?
if he doesnt reply- thats his deal- you can consitantly be nice
also- i initiated most of my H's and my contact- he reciprocated. i asked my DB Coach if shouldnt do it as much- and she said if he wasnt reciprocating then yes- but it was working so continue to do it!
what has been working for you guys?
im very happy you are a social butterfly! dont spend all your dough at Ikea- that can be done very quickly.
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese