Fireproof.....well, not really

[FaithfulH]

The system in the State of NY is highly flawed. It forces us to point a finger and 'find blame' to get a divorce. We don't have uncontested divorces here.

Sorry, FIB, this is a good thing not a "flaw". Thank God for states like NY that respect the sanctity of marriage. I don't think the NY system was designed to "force us to point a finger"....but, to ensure that there really is cause. BTW, I agree with SPM's take on your interaction with W. Remember...."Love and Respect"...stopping the "Crazy Cycle" can begin with you! Hang in there, FIB!