I think your kids may surprise you. I am sure they feel that you are their "rock" right now as they are yours. Just try to keep encouraging conversation when they are ready. My ex has the problem that he says they never seem to have anything to say, but he always puts them on the spot. Doesn't quite understand how to "work" a conversation so that the kids feel like talking about stuff.

Hugs, kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory