In fact I have even had dreams where I tell H about the boards. I think someday I would like to tell him about them...
Have you ever looked up the posts from happy_again? They are pretty interesting. It's a guy in MLC, and he starts out being REALLY negative with loads of spew, but he goes back to his wife. He said he found the boards because his wife had the books. Anyway very interesting to read his perspective and how he turns around.
Have you had R talks with your H any time recently?
-ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!