I've been giving advice, but now I wouldn't mind taking some, if anyone has any insights for me.
Lately I've been feeling really down and I can't put my finger on it. I have had a kind of "I don't give a sh$t" attitude with my wife, and haven't really put forth a whole lot of effort to get along. It almost feels like I have pent up resentments but I can't think of anything I'd be resentful about. I know it's adversely affecting my relationship, but it's like I'm expecting my wife to pull me out of this or to make the efforts required to make everything okay. Logically I know she can't, but I can't seem to find the gusto to act/be loving towards her first.
The only thing different at the moment is that my slipped disc is acting up badly again and I really can't get much activity going except for walking. Don't know if it's related.
I don't like this, but I'm struggling to shake it. Any ideas on how to get things going?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
